Lyn Blue
Wed, 02/03/2010 - 12:00
Last night I was snooping through my log's desk. Well, can we really call it snooping..? I was bored, looking around for something interesting to entertain me, and he was coming home late, as usual. I got online and started listening to this radio show - Kim Iverson, and she had two male guests on... one guy from a ghost group, Aether Paranormal, and another guy that writes for askstanger.com. The topic of their show was snooping, and they were asking if it's really so wrong for ladies, in particular, to do this. First, I looked around to see if anyone was watching me. I felt violated. Then, I just listened. The guys were kinda quiet... guess the question kinda got 'em. I mean, if there's nothing to hide, how can someone be so angry at you for 'finding' something and call it snooping? 'Cause that means they're the shit head if you found something! Kinda twisted, ey? If there wasn't anything bad found then no one would need to be defensive, or angry right?
Now, we're not talking about the psycho bitches here... ladies, you know who you are, sorry...and you've got more serious issues than this blog can address. We're talking about the sane people who just have a logical suspicion that their man is up to no good. OR, perhaps they stumble upon it, without even really 'looking.'
OK.. this is how I see it... If my log was casually looking at something of mine I might ask him what he's looking for, but I wouldn't be angry. Mostly because he's not going to find shit. And I know that. If I were hiding something though, I'd be angry!! Seems logical, right? I would be MAD I got CAUGHT.
All that talk really got me heated... I can't help but wonder if I really wanted to stumble across something... I'm not a real jealous kind of person... I guess I just let curiosity get the best of me. But it doesn't matter.. nothing lost, nothing found...
And further more, what's snoopin' got to do with love & trust? Kim asked a good question: If someone where in charge of your million dollar fortune, would you check up on it occasionally? Of course. And our hearts are worth a lot more than a million dollars. They're worth everything.
Maybe snoopin' isn't the real issue here... maybe it's the people who don't want you to SNOOP that we need to have a show about.
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Here's the deal, pickle... do
by Lyn Blue - 02/09/2010 - 09:05
Here's the deal, pickle... do you think cheating is a respectful act? I hope you answered, "No." OK... well, what about this.. some people would never get caught if some of us didn't snoop. What's a guy gonna do... admit he cheated? Yeah, about as much chance of that happenin' as it snowin' in Texas. So, while it's not always cool to rummage through random people's shit, if YOUR man gives you a reason to look, 'cause like... uh... he's not looking at you when you're naked, (there's your reason!) then I say SNOOP. SNOOP. SNOOP. If you don't find anything, it's worth the little guilt you'll feel because you did.. but if you DO find something, then SHAME ON HIM!!!!!!!
Jack nuts suck!!! Snoop nuts rule!! Damn, Gina.
I have to say, I'm not really
by Anonymous - 02/09/2010 - 03:18
I have to say, I'm not really sure i agree. I was single for 10 yrs and use to having my privacy. I finally got married to a guy that had some issues I didn't know about...ie (an exwife I didn't know about, left him and cleaned him out) So he always went through my stuff, because he had trust issues....It pissed me off, not because I had something to hide, but because it was a trust/respect thing...after all I had not done anything to lose his trust or respect. My mom, wouldn't even let us get into her purse, not because she had something to hide but because of respect and in return she never went through my room...If somethings going on, it will come out on its own eventually. So my thought is, if you don't have enough trust or respect for someone, then why be married to them?
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